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SAHM and Their Career Relaunch
Hello my intellectual
and sensible readers ,today my topic of talk is SAHM (Stay at home Mom) the
topic which may be considered female oriented but nowadays I feel males are
more liberal and compassionate, they do understand and respect the role of
females in their life.
Being a
woman I know for a female its not easy physically as well as mentally to give
birth to a baby. Post partum anxiety and depression are very common after baby birth your
life just turns into roller coaster. 24 hrs seems to be less in a day to take
care of baby and yourself.
SAHM I call them Super or
must say new proud mommas after leaving professional life staying at home because of their kids. It just changes the life
completely today was reading something on it and this just made me to write about super
moms what i call to SAHM STAY AT HOME MOMMAS when you don't have anything to do
but almost everything to do.
The role
of home maker and full time mom just made me to realise its the most difficult
job to do, your 8-12 h office job is really
far better than just do every thing without any salary, breaks, holidays perks.
Apparently we don't have any target or time boundation, but the fact is we just get stuck in daily
hubble bubble life most suitable word for horibbly troubled life.
If we
don't have to go out for job we become so careless about ourself like what to wear why to get ready.
Oh! I just
made it really sad, not every thing is bad about this life .
Best
thing about this period is u have lots
of time to see your bundle of joy growing before you. You can watch his or her activities
.Its a real pleasure to see baby doing daily something new, the feeling can't
be expressed in words to see your baby who cud hardly move his hands and
legs few months earlier now ready to run here and there, trying to impress
people around him and seek continuous attention.U can
have your me time only after baby sleep. Try to do exercise, yoga,
reading of good books, explore latest updates in your field and side by side
get prepared to join the main stream again.
As doing job or being professional not only bring u money but a sense of pride
and self respect.
I feel many women exceptions are those who got maternity leave or
on permanent jobs or din’t relocate after marriage ). Specially SAHM(Stay at
home moms) went through this phase, who left their job after marriage or
motherhood. Reason might be anything but we never know how fast the time flies.
It seems like to start again from ABC to be fluent in English.
Its seems to be scary but is the must do thing to search for job to do
something that gives you professional as well as intellectual satisfaction.
Own job or profession not only make us financially independent but also gives a
sense of pride and self respect. If being highly qwalified we are not working
its like insulting our degrees and profession as well as the waste of whole
hardwork we did during whole life.
Where there is will there is way. We need to be updated and refresh our
knowledge, acquire new skills that can help to make our profile more appealing
to the employe r. Now a days flexible options like Freelancer or part time jobs
are there whatever suits u. Ladies be more proactive towards your dreams and gentle men just help them to pursue their
dreams.
Deepti M Sati.
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